Overview Consider the image below this line. What do you notice right away? If your answer is “the black dot,” like many other people, it just shows how our mind has been programmed to see the hardly 1% portion which is black, ignoring the 99% which is sparkling white. It highlights the average person’s tendency to focus on “imperfections” and “issues” represented by the black dot, while the white paper
Overview It has been said, “Gossip is a national pastime”. Whenever people find free time, at home, in school, college, or in office they resort to gossiping. According to Yale University researcher, we spend at least 60% of our conversations talking about people who are not with us at that time. While it’s a human tendency to gossip occasionally, some people can go overboard with it. Ironically, the more we
“When a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that three of his fingers are pointing at himself.” ― Louis Nizer Overview One of the most destructive human pastimes is playing the blame game. It has been responsible for a considerable amount of human frustration and unhappiness. The blame game consists of blaming another person for an event or state of affairs thought to be undesirable.
Overview We have all heard the famous saying, “life is 10% of what happens and 90% of how you react to it.” Imagine going to the doctor for medication and returning for a follow-up visit. In one case the doctor says you are reacting to the medication, in the other case the doctor says you are responding to the treatment. When anything happens in the environment to cause you feel
Now a days… …we feel irritated if a website doesn’t load instantly. …we think taking a nap is a sign of laziness. …we check our email, Facebook, and twitter 15 times a day. …we eat instant oatmeal for breakfast, frozen meals for lunch, and order takeaway for dinner. …we lose sleep over an upcoming deadline. …we even take our own lives because the pressure to perform is too much to
If you happen to ask the man on the street some questions about his neighbors like name, profession, contact number, you are in for a disappointment, because very few would have the answers.
Overview Effective communication skills are fundamental to success in many aspects of life. Many jobs require strong communication skills and people with good communication skills usually enjoy better interpersonal relationships with friends and family. “You can have brilliant ideas, but if you can’t get them across, your ideas won’t get you anywhere.” ~Lee Iacocca The good news is that anyone can develop good communication skills. And it’s encouraging to know
Having chosen the goals correctly, it’s time to chalk out a roadmap to achieve them. Let’s discuss some do’s and don’ts so that we reach our destination without going astray and as scheduled, on time. Do’s Write down your goals: Simply writing your goals down will put you years ahead of most people. Brian Tracy once said that only about 5% of people have goals written down, so just writing
Do you ever notice that why few people always keep complaining and find it difficult to be happy? The world is same for all, few people live a happy life, they find abundance and ample of opportunities while few people always struggle to be happy and see only the negative side of the world. The difference lies in their perspective, the world looks as we want to see it. If we
Overview It is said that motivation is the need of the hour. People of all ages are looking for sources of motivation to become efficient, successful and stress-free. The largest number of self-help books are selling in the genre of motivation and inspiration. In spite of all this, it is a paradox that only a small section of society is really motivated. Pep up sessions You might have attended motivational